Natalie Lue: People-Pleasing, Poor Boundaries, and Other Barriers to Intimacy

Episode 11 April 13, 2022 01:30:42
Natalie Lue: People-Pleasing, Poor Boundaries, and Other Barriers to Intimacy
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Natalie Lue: People-Pleasing, Poor Boundaries, and Other Barriers to Intimacy

Apr 13 2022 | 01:30:42

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Show Notes

How can our boundaries support deeper intimacy? What do we lose when we're stuck in a loop of people-pleasing? 

Natalie Lue (she/her) joins us to share stories about some of the obstacles to intimacy she’s had to navigate—such as people-pleasing and poor boundaries. In the realm of boundaries she also shares about her experience of needing to creating healthier boundaries with extended family, especially when they overstep with your partner. So real, right? I love it.

You can find Natalie at baggagereclaim.co.uk and on IG: @natlue

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[Full transcript of this episode is available here]

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